When A Minor Comes Out (Narrated)…

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Date: August 30, 2013

This selection from “In Self Defense: The Life and Times of An Atheist BoyLover…Memoirs and Ethos”, has been narrated by Rocco White. Please enjoy the listen, or read along if you like…or need to.


When a minor comes out as homosexual, not only are they publicly asserting themselves as being a sexual being, as well as some vague form of homosexual…they are also publically admitting that they fall into the bare minimum of at least one of three further categories…

1) They are attracted to adults of their own sex.

2) They are attracted to age peers of their own sex.

3) They are attracted to younger people [ie: children] of their own sex.

If none of these attractions exist, then there is no valid reason for a minor to identify as homosexual…because that minor would not be homosexual.

There is a substantive, sexual identity and nature, that comes with being homosexual. You either have these attractions and nature, or you don’t.

…As such…we as a society either accept that these kids [minors] have these attractions and nature, or we do not…There is no middle ground…We either acknowledge it for what it is, in it’s entirety…or we are still denying these kids, what is fundamental to their own lives.

…Even amongst the allegedly progressive and activist groups…most do not sincerely accept, let alone stand up for and defend, the homosexual child and the homosexual teen.

Yes, of course…they give a lot of politically correct lip service, to “pride” and how “wonderful” it is homosexuals are feeling safe and secure enough to be coming out younger and younger…

…But where is their true resolve, when the messy business of hair splitting starts, in the game of social politics?…

…And oh, the issue of homosexual rights becomes so tricky, where it concerns the young…and the homosexual establishment having to stick it’s own neck out over the line…

How do you even stand up for the sexual rights of “our” young…when the outward expression of sex, is itself illegal for these very same kids?…How do you empower and strengthen them, by supporting their bondage [as so many homosexual groups do]?

You either accept that they are sexual human beings…or you are not accepting them…You either accept that at least one of the three categories listed above is the reality of their life…or you are rejecting them…And what do these categories say about these children and teens?…

1) They are attracted to adults of their own sex.

…The “ultimate evil taboo”, inverted?…

While I think it would be wrong to say, that all homosexual children and teens fantasize about sex with adults…common sense [and for many, their own personal experience] has got to enlighten us to the fact…that many homosexual young will mirror their heterosexual counterparts…And heterosexual kids typically do fantasize, about having sex with an adult of the opposite sex…Why would this not be true, for homosexual kids?

Such an argument, that the same does not hold true for both groups, would be baseless…It would make no sense…It would betray logic…And it would be divorced from reality.

For sure…the young still have their physical beauty, better than the rather old…So they may be more prone, to look amongst themselves for sexual companionship…Or, maybe it is that they are socially alienated, which keeps many of them from even trying to approach an older person…Any way we look at it, it still comes down to social ideals, and a wall of social intolerance…These are what shape sexual concepts in our own minds, and push each of us towards “what everybody else is doing”.

It certainly is not that it is impossible, for a young kid to be sexually attracted to an adult…In fact, it’s quite typical and common…Truth be told…no matter what age we may have found ourselves at, as kids a lot of us have memories of having been randy enough, to want to experience physical sexual sensations with an adult…even if only to discover, just what it was like.

…But it violates the social narrative, of “normal relationships”…Which shunts it off into a realm, where most people will not treat this issue with respect, importance or dignity…Most will not afford it a place to thrive and be beautiful [or at least meaningful], or an atmosphere to take any pride in itself.

…Still…this coming out is supposed to be an issue of “pride”?…It is supposed to be a “good” thing?…

How do you reconcile this?…

…Is it every bit as “sick” and “deviant”, when the sexual desires are directed [and even initiated] from the young to the old?…

…Are the young “sexual offenders” too, for choosing to violate these rigid social structures?

Are they “mentally ill”, for doing what comes natural to them?…because certain other people, don’t want them to do it?

Isn’t this really what it always comes down to, for sexual classes?…It’s all about who wants you to do what, and who is willing and able to punish for non-conformity…

The point here…is that “category 1” is saddled with so much intolerance…it is outright insane, to suggest that they even can outwardly take pride in who they are…

…It has already been dictated by the politically correct…that what they desire in their own sexual orientation, is “abhorrent”, “abnormal” and “extremely bad” [if not “evil”].

It is a paradox…What is there for them to be proud about, when nobody will even let them be themselves?

2) They are attracted to age peers of their own sex.

While a bit more politically correct on the “power equality” argument…this is still a very dicey place for any homosexual child or teen to find themselves in…as well as for sexual rights organizations to confront.

Sure, this does away with the complexities of expected adult/child social norms…but it does not get around the fact, that these attractions cannot be legally acted upon in many places…A lot of these kids are still legally “assaulting” each other, by mutually engaging in sex.

…But I want to get back to the attraction, itself…

…Allegedly, it is “normal”, so long as the kids involved are in some relatively [though, often still quite fuzzy] equal biological [or age] window…

…But then, for some strange and unknown reason…this perfectly normal attraction which is supposed to be good, when it is “biologically equal”, is supposed to fade away as one gets older…and if it does not, then this previously normal, healthy and good attraction which was once to be celebrated, becomes “wicked”, “depraved”, “destructive” and “abusive”…”mentally ill”, even…

…It starkly makes no sense…

How is a “mentally ill” attraction, at any point in time “healthy”?…

Where is this curious line, and the hard evidence to support it?

…I think, there is no natural line at all…And this false dichotomy, of a normal childhood attraction morphing into a mental illness, depending on who is experiencing it…I think this is all social propaganda, to keep various sexual groups apart from each other…And I think, that is truthfully the only purpose that it serves.

So…do these kids continue to get a pass?…Will the politically correct, have their cake and eat it too?…

Aren’t these kids we are all so proud of, exhibiting early signs, of an “alarming sexual deviancy”?…

How are they even to be distinguished, from “sexual molestation victims, who go all pervy because they were molested”?

…And given how “horrible” the outward enactment of these acts is alleged to be…one would think the kids of “category 2”, could never experience anything other than fear and shame…

How does “pride” find it’s way around this maze?

3) They are attracted to younger people [ie: children] of their own sex.

From the frying pan, into the fire…

…The young, wanting the younger…my goodness…

This is, yet again, one more complicated factor being introduced into all of this “prideful” coming out.

While I do not personally see anything nasty or terrible about that kind of expression of physical intimacy…I don’t see how the kids in “category 3”, can ever be anything but disenfranchised…not only from “normal society”, but from even the very groups who claim to fight on their behalf, as a member of a sexual minority.

Would those groups ever even acknowledge these kids, with these specific attractions, and doing those kinds of things?…

…Even as these same groups like to claim those kids as “their own” [so long as they’ve not been socially tainted by some scandal], I don’t believe a single darn one of them would outwardly define, outline and defend the sexual nature of kids in “category 3″….

The reality of the kids in this group, is outright radioactive, to those kinds of “rights” groups…Heck, the homosexual rights groups are likely to run from this, abandon those kids, or even throw them onto the “sexual deviancy” trash heap.

…Is there honestly any “pride”, for these kids?

I think, when you start digging deeper…you begin to discover, that too much of what these “homosexual rights” groups do…is based upon a premise, that is a lie…That most of these groups are thoroughly divorced, from the root goals [and causes] of the sexual liberation movement…That they are mostly ineffectual at liberation, while at the same time being agents of social stagnation…And that they are much too politically correct, sterilized and meek, to confront the issues on their true terms.

I think, “representation and nurturing of homosexual youth”, is probably the single most disingenuous “cause”, that “homosexual rights” groups have embroiled themselves in, today.

…These groups are so mixed up, they cannot even figure out how to approach the natural sexuality of homosexual kids…even though, these exact same people presumably experienced it all themselves…

…Yeah, sure…it exists…when the need for funds and “social awareness” arrives, and these groups want to justify their own existence…But, it only exists in a sterile, not entirely human way…so that it never offends.

That is not “representation”…That is a fair weather friend, who’s happy to have you when there is something in it for them…but they conceal the proverbial knife, behind their own back.


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