Daily Archives: March 16, 2014

A Gem of Wisdom: “All About Power”…


Date: March 16, 2014

01) A few things

“If our attractions were about power than we would also be attracted to anybody we can overpower… like midgets, old ladies, and small animals. It had nothing to do with power any more than straight men being attracted to women has anything to do with power. We are sexually attracted to kids because we find them sexy. Not because we want to hurt them.” – sir sympathy

An astute observation, by sir sympathy…

…and it is an excellent response to give, anytime someone throws out the “all about power” accusation [which is all that it is…a forceful accusation…It is not a valid argument, of any form…].

It is fair to note…that a lot of people do [maliciously, I believe] go on to suggest, or even outright claim, that our attraction to children “proves that we would rape anyone, or anything, we were capable of raping”…

This has to do with a failure in their own comprehension…Not just a failure dealing with what constitutes a sexual attraction [or orientation]…but also a failure to comprehend natural motives behind sexual relations.

It confuses those who are motivated by “the thrill of rape”…with those who are inclined to seek a sexual companion, who possesses certain physical and personal character traits…two distinct categories, which really have nothing to do with each other.

As a side note…I’ve never understood why so many people out there seemingly believe, that the physical aspects of a child’s body “cannot be sexually appealing”…or that “it must be a mental sickness, to find such things sexually appealing”…Sexual intimacy is something which goes well beyond the mere pursuit of making babies…and hence, whether or not one or both [or all] participants are physically capable of making a baby, is irrelevant to the question of whether or not the act, or relationship, is based on valid sexuality and valid intent.

Many people would counter this, by saying children lack the cognitive skills to comprehend any long term effects of this kind of relationship…And while it is clearly true, anyone who has never experienced it before, has little [or no] idea what to expect from the experience [except whatever has been verbally described to them, in a way they can comprehend]…it is not true, that these relations and activities cannot be [or rarely are] conducted in a manner that caters to the child, and to the child’s own pleasure.

This is one of the things I find very troubling…just how frequently this point is entirely omitted, from the body of discussion on pedophilia…Any fact based representations, on just exactly how these types of relationships tend to play out, is almost never considered in public discussion.

The question is not whether pedophilia is harmful…but instead, why pedophilia is being framed in public discourse, to make it appear as if it were harmful…and why information to the contrary is far more likely to be shouted down, side stepped and it’s voicer belittled, as opposed to given critical consideration.

From what I see…public behavior towards this sexual orientation is more about subversion, and simply trying to keep the relevant individuals separate…so that it has almost zero opportunity to happen at all, under any circumstances…

…In other words, this is one form of institutionalized social, sexual control…one designed to impose in children, an early life phobia against this type of sex…while imposing a type of social and psychological terror upon those older individuals, who find themselves to have this sexual orientation.

A Gem of Wisdom: “All About Power” (Narrated)…


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Date: March 16, 2014

01) A few things

This selection from “In Self Defense: The Life and Times of An Atheist BoyLover…Memoirs and Ethos”, has been narrated by Rocco White. Please enjoy the listen, or read along if you like…or need to.


“If our attractions were about power than we would also be attracted to anybody we can overpower… like midgets, old ladies, and small animals. It had nothing to do with power any more than straight men being attracted to women has anything to do with power. We are sexually attracted to kids because we find them sexy. Not because we want to hurt them.” – sir sympathy

An astute observation, by sir sympathy…

…and it is an excellent response to give, anytime someone throws out the “all about power” accusation [which is all that it is…a forceful accusation…It is not a valid argument, of any form…].

It is fair to note…that a lot of people do [maliciously, I believe] go on to suggest, or even outright claim, that our attraction to children “proves that we would rape anyone, or anything, we were capable of raping”…

This has to do with a failure in their own comprehension…Not just a failure dealing with what constitutes a sexual attraction [or orientation]…but also a failure to comprehend natural motives behind sexual relations.

It confuses those who are motivated by “the thrill of rape”…with those who are inclined to seek a sexual companion, who possesses certain physical and personal character traits…two distinct categories, which really have nothing to do with each other.

As a side note…I’ve never understood why so many people out there seemingly believe, that the physical aspects of a child’s body “cannot be sexually appealing”…or that “it must be a mental sickness, to find such things sexually appealing”…Sexual intimacy is something which goes well beyond the mere pursuit of making babies…and hence, whether or not one or both [or all] participants are physically capable of making a baby, is irrelevant to the question of whether or not the act, or relationship, is based on valid sexuality and valid intent.

Many people would counter this, by saying children lack the cognitive skills to comprehend any long term effects of this kind of relationship…And while it is clearly true, anyone who has never experienced it before, has little [or no] idea what to expect from the experience [except whatever has been verbally described to them, in a way they can comprehend]…it is not true, that these relations and activities cannot be [or rarely are] conducted in a manner that caters to the child, and to the child’s own pleasure.

This is one of the things I find very troubling…just how frequently this point is entirely omitted, from the body of discussion on pedophilia…Any fact based representations, on just exactly how these types of relationships tend to play out, is almost never considered in public discussion.

The question is not whether pedophilia is harmful…but instead, why pedophilia is being framed in public discourse, to make it appear as if it were harmful…and why information to the contrary is far more likely to be shouted down, side stepped and it’s voicer belittled, as opposed to given critical consideration.

From what I see…public behavior towards this sexual orientation is more about subversion, and simply trying to keep the relevant individuals separate…so that it has almost zero opportunity to happen at all, under any circumstances…

…In other words, this is one form of institutionalized social, sexual control…one designed to impose in children, an early life phobia against this type of sex…while imposing a type of social and psychological terror upon those older individuals, who find themselves to have this sexual orientation.


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Being Savage, to Combat what is Savage…


Date: March 16, 2014

01) The biggest obstacle to the BL ’cause’?

“Is it true to say that the biggest obstacle to the lack of equality for BLs is; the fact that most BLs actually believe they are sick, as apposed to it just being their natural sexual orientation?”

A thought…

…The world is savage…though not everything and everyone in the world is savage.

What you mention is an enormous obstacle…because if people cannot envision anything better, then there will be no progress.

Of equal consideration, is the social practice of penalizing [often times, very harshly] individuals and groups…for those savage things, happening in the broader world…and having the freedom and better interests of some groups, pitted against the plight of others outside of their sphere of control…or influence.

To my mind…it is never okay to persecute or injure an individual, or a group…in the name of stopping something that individual or group has never had a hand in…

…Yet, in my opinion…this is exactly the circumstance which we face.

There is a wider sense of social entitlement…towards destroying the ability of others to create a civil, social way of life, where they can actually live in peace, and in harmony with their own nature.

Humans need to let go of this perspective…that because many individuals are oriented this way, it somehow equates to those individuals being fair game to target, on the grounds that they are somehow at fault for savage brutalities suffered by children [and teens], the world over.

A person who has never raped a child, is never at fault for the global problem of child rape…Under no circumstances, should they ever be treated as though they were.

Doing that, just creates more social problems…more dysfunction…more real savagery…more deep seeded hate.

As I see it…this is every bit as large of a problem, as any of those we presently face.

Humans as a species, need to realize how they are not just harming people like us [which is bad enough and indefensible, in itself]…but how they are harming children, by creating a more volatile and angry world…and the many ways, they are harming themselves in this blind pursuit.