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Pondering the ‘Pond Dwellers’ of Twitter…


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Date: January 22, 2016

01) Paedophiles…The Pond Dwellers Of Twitter

A few thoughts…

“Our thoughts on this issue were started by a conversation involving a twitter follower, who’s absolute abhorrence towards these predators drives her to engage with them, in the attempt to firstly instil in them the absolute knowledge they will not be tolerated on social media and then to ultimately drive them from the very forums they exploit. It is after all, via social media that many sexual predators create insular networks of (minor attracted) individuals, who’s sexual desire for children can be shared and possibly facilitated.”

The people behind the linked post, exhibit an understanding that they are discussing people who have been the targets of habitual attack [and knowing what I painfully well know about these cases, likely lots of vulgar abuse], from at least one aggressive user on Twitter.

…Then, in a hatchet piece, dripping with dehumanizing and spooky innuendo [get a load of the pictures they chose to display, too], they proceed to cherry pick a few quotes…offer them out of context [oh, how typical of these sorts]…refuse to give any reference link [oh, how typical of these sorts]…and paint a whole unsubstantiated picture, based on a couple of screen captures…and lots of innuendo about Nigel Oldfield…

…Balanced articles do not do those things…People with an honest intent, do not do those things…People with integrity, do not do those things…People who are decent human beings, do not do those things…

…And if Nigel [or Patrick Simmons] were the deplorable people they make them out to be, then they’d hardly need to stoop to such levels of hyperbole, distraction and misleading.

Thoughts on Twitter Dialogue with “Pedophiles”:

Of course…I cannot speak for every exchange, nor for the behavior of every “pedophile” on Twitter [or the internet]…And I’ve been around far long enough, to know that some “pedophiles” are objectively horrible people…but those are also a slim minority, of the “pedophiles” I’ve crossed paths with, over the last two decades.

…So…I at least know, that they are a minority within a minority…And they don’t honestly represent “pedophiles” online.

What so few people will tell you about being a “pedophile” online [but I don’t mind clarifying, right now]…is that you spend years of your life being bashed, lied about, having your life [and everything in it] threatened, being relentlessly abused by people who feel entitled to treat you as if you weren’t human…All of this, in the face of not even having done anything objectively bad, just placing yourself out there for a social dialogue…

…and the second you make any “off color” response [even if only a humorous retort, to lighten the mood and insulate your own strained nerves] to this vile, sickening, demented onslaught…there is always someone out there, to pull the “abused victim” card, rush off crying to their friends about what they received [or even just saw, somewhere else]…and come back rampaging, as an angry mob out for vengeance, over a perceived slight…from “a pedophile who doesn’t know their proper place”…

…Of course…nowhere in all of this is any sympathy or allowance for the “pedophile”, who’s been getting relentlessly poked at, prodded, slandered, threatened, sworn at, called every nasty thing imaginable in the vocabulary…

There is no acknowledgement, that the “pedophile” has been thoroughly provoked in every way, into these responses…

…It’s only you people who are out there, waiting for these inevitable cracking points [where some of us tell the more nasty of you, to “go take a walk off a pier”, or something less nice and befitting what you’ve been saying to/about us]…who screen capture these incidents, put them on display for all your hive minded friends to get outraged over, and pretend that “this is how pedophiles online act”…Oh, the horrors…and “this is why pedophiles need to be banned from the internet [or wherever]”…Blah, blah…blah, blah, blah…

This is the only thing going on, with the post linked above.

And of course…there’s the mountains and years worth of positive, reasonable dialogue from us “pedophiles”…which none of you will ever be caught dead acknowledging…No, you always pretend that this never exists.

…Explain to me again…where is the attempt at balance, here?

A thing or two I can say about Nigel:

I’ve yet to see Nigel get abusive, with any victim of sexual abuse.

I have seen him use a lot of good humor over the years, however…I’ve seen him rip into social issues, and social behaviors…But I’ve never seen him get personally malicious, with an individual…nor try to use their abused past against them.

I think…most of what is going on in these cases…is that many people who self identify as survivors of sexual abuse, are accustomed to everybody agreeing with them, and everybody allowing them [and only people who think and speak like them] to dictate every aspect of the conversation…

…So, when they encounter someone who does not share their views, they interpret it as some kind of slight or attack against them…and they often become hostile, nasty, abusive and aggressive towards that person…Which only increases tension, and leads to nothing good.

…But, it’s all honestly just happening, in their own cognitive mind…not necessarily in the objective, real world.

Nigel gets a raw deal in this, just like so many of the rest of us do.

Now…have there been a few noteworthy, megalomaniac, skunk butt lickers from the “survivors” side of the fence, who some of us are pleased to see karma come back around and [very, very, very deservedly] deal them a stiff wallop up side the head?…

…Sure…of course…Some of you burned up your political capital, and your right to our leniency and grace, years upon years ago…because you wouldn’t behave like civilized human beings…and all you know how to do, is act like a rabid animal.

Should we be expected to “understand you”, and your relentless behavior…when you wont even lift a finger, to move yourself out of the victimhood which defines you and your actions?…Should we tolerate your chronic bile, when we’ve had nothing to do with your abuse?…Should we hold you entirely unaccountable, as if you were a mental invalid?…

…Should we and our vital social issues be censored…because you consider yourself to be too mentally delicate, to deal with encountering us discussing those issues?

Most of the problem here, stems from passive aggressive behavior…That is simple, true fact.

Overwhelmingly…most of the “pedophiles” I’ve known over the decades, were not aggressive, abusive or nasty towards victims of abuse…

…A number of them have been paragons of patience, tolerance and grace…even in the face of being just bludgeoned, mercilessly…by you alleged “good folks”.

Anyone can keep bashing on us, taking our words out of context, misquoting us and smearing us…to the point we give them a good chewing out, for their noxious and despicable behavior…just to turn around and cry to their friends about it, throw a fit, and act as if they didn’t just go to Olympic efforts to earn it…

…It’s a cheap and pathetic trick…If they had any amount of respect for anyone at all [including their own “friends”, who they are lying to, to get involved], they’d own up to their own behaviors, and correct them…

…and start behaving like a decent, sane human being, who doesn’t deserve a good chewing out.

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