Reposted: January 29, 2016
This selection from “In Self Defense: The Life and Times of An Atheist BoyLover…Memoirs and Ethos”, has been narrated by Rocco White. Please enjoy the listen, or read along if you like…or need to.
paedophile is more of an stereotypical umbrella term, these days. It covers a much more vast area of human sexuality, when used in conversation today, than what it actually means by its’ true definition. It is hard for most anyone to make heads or tails of this issue, while there is such a lack of good, sound, supported information out there…and even harder when we are all drowning in a sea of aggression, hate and war, while wandering through the eye of a social storm.
It’s hard to find yourself…your true self…
…but, if I may impart this one piece of advice, because it is pure gold in my opinion…
Whatever else you may do in your life, never, ever, ever define yourself by the negative dogma of this world.
A brilliant man once said, “Don’t let others define you…Don’t let others confine you”.
Those who control how others think of you, and how you think of yourself, hold enormous power over your life. When these people wield venom, the only possible outcome is poisoned minds and ill outcomes.
There is no shame in being a pedophile (or paedophile)…There is only shame in pursuing an existence which hurts others…Pedophilia and hurt, are not one and the same.
Life is what you make of it…not what everyone else dictates it to be. Beware of this, because there are a lot of parrots in this world, who are all to happy to reinforce the popular dogmas, stigmas and paradigms of current times.
…I may enjoy birds quite a lot, but I’d never base my philosophics on what one, or a whole flock of them, had to squawk about…because when you get to the root of it all…a parrot will only indiscriminately imitate that which has been repeated to it, over and over and over and over and over…
…Don’t let yourself get swept away in the momentum of this storm…It’s not worth the grief, or the other costs, to give in and start hating yourself, just because that’s the politically correct, and socially popular, thing to do.
In fact, psychologically giving in to that mindset, surrendering to the intolerance and accepting in your own mind that you are all those terrible things that some claim you to be (and others reinforce with parroting), is one of the worst things an actual pedophile could ever do.
That, for a child lover, is the first step in becoming one of societies self fulfilling prophecies…the violent, abusive, murdering pedophile….
No matter who you are…you ultimately become what you think yourself to be.
All the best…