Daily Archives: March 22, 2016

BBC ChemSex…


Date: March 22, 2016

01) David Stuart: ChemSex

I heard this on the radio, the other night…

…It really underscores one thing I’ve been discussing for years…

…Many gay people look down on us BoyLovers…and they lay blame on us, because of all the unfair social stigma and stereotypes aimed at us, which also gets associated unfairly with gay men [in particular]…instead of realizing the myriad of issues which are being wrongly mixed together, and sold to the larger public as some perverse phantom to be feared…

…They don’t recognize the tactic being used against our communities…or how we are being played off against each other…

…All the while, it is a two way street…

…Yes, no matter how wrong stereotypes on “pedophiles” may be…they are still out there, and they are still a burden on any community tainted with them…The fact that they are false, does not make them any less damaging or taxing.

…But if you really noted everything on the table, and acknowledged everything that is demonstrably happening in the gay community…you would come to realize, that blame for common practices in the gay community is every bit as devastating to us BoyLovers…if not more so…Because not only do we have to contend with the lies spread about us, directly…but there are also people out there, who maliciously claim that we do the same things with small children, as gay men do with each other…Something which is clearly not even true.

…ChemSex…Grinder…anonymous sex…anal sex…fisting…You know, it’s been my experience, that [as a homosexual pedophile] being mentally associated with the gay community has been far worse for us BoyLovers…because the gay community brings with it, so many complicated skeletons in it’s own closet…skeletons which are demonstrably real…Which makes them much, much different, from what all gets commonly claimed about us pedophiles…

There is a real world track record, of many things that aren’t really all that healthy, in the gay community…as opposed to the pedophile community, which is largely only guilty of being marred down in a relentless, vicious, propaganda assault…So much of what they claim about us, just is not true…period…Yet, we have both that assault, and everything the gay community is up to, tied around our necks…dragging us down.

Largely…we are distinct, very different communities…And people should not be mistaking what commonly goes on in the pedophile community, with what commonly goes on in the gay community.

It has been to both of our communities detriments…that we’ve stood by for years, and allowed this social misunderstanding to flourish.