Date: September 26, 2016
“Some seven and eight year old boys have (and enjoy) oral sex. One proof for that is the result of the following study were about 560 homo- and bisexual young men were asked about their first sexual experiences:
Kubicek et al. (2010): In the Dark: Young Men’s Stories of Sexual Initiation in the Absence of Relevant Sexual Health Information. Health Education & Behavior, 37 (2) 243-263.
“Many of the respondents reported that their growing awareness of their sexuality led them to explore the possibilities at a young age. It was not unusual for young men to describe early sexual experiences such as mutual masturbation, oral sex, and “grinding” at the age of 7 or 8.”
Some other studies show that often such early sexual experiences are enjoyed very much.”
BoyChat continues to astonish me…
…because of it’s continued relevance, in educating people.
When I first arrived, back in 98…I could have easily been categorized as “Virtuous Pedophile Lite”…I didn’t see this orientation as anything especially bad…but I also did not see a reason, or social path forward, in successfully defending it.
My time [with BoyChat] has been a life changing experience…The education I have received, numerous times over, has led me to the understanding…that islands of honest examination surrounding our sexuality, do exist.
While I still resist demanding that our sexual inclinations be fully legalized…I have come to staunchly demand, that society quit treating this knowledge, as though it were trash to be discarded.
Thank you, Filip30. I appreciate what you do…just as I’ve appreciated what so many others [on BoyChat] have done.
“Are there any requirements to enjoy oral-sex as an 7 or 8 year old boy?
For example it is well documented that the pubertal development of boys shows big differences.
Or will in a future society without sexual taboos nearly all 7 and 8 year old boys have and enjoy oral sex?”
From what knowledge I have gathered during my lifetime…I think there are no mysterious answers to this…
…We are one of many species, with highly sensitive genitalia and a common trait to be physically close. While we don’t know why…sexual arousal tends to happen…a lot. Probably because we are biological animals, because of our chemistry…and because sex factually serves many social purposes…the natural response, is to go with your instinct.
I believe…the number one factor in a good outcome of these kinds of encounters and relationships…is feeling safe and secure in one’s personal choices.
Naturally…various things can interfere with that…But if there is no interference…it’s just a natural thing, left alone to happen.
It’s telling and instructive…just how often the memories turn out good…whenever people aren’t harshly judged or punished, for doing what comes naturally to them.
One of the things that’s most fascinated me about zoophilia…is it’s ability to demonstrably unlock sexual pleasure, for animals that don’t get to experience sexual stimulation on that level [orgasms, even], in their normal setting with other members of their species. And how some non-human animals have been known, to take to this behavior quite well…very enthusiastically, even.
The only reason I bring this up…is because I think there is a biological parallel going on here…And that some species of warm blooded animals [mammals], simply have a natural, inborn tendency towards sexual intimacy.
…It’s just automatically there, whether it’s being tapped into or not.