Pedophobia: One Problem with the ‘That’s Not Fear’ Argument (Narrated)…


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Date: October 20, 2016

This selection from “In Self Defense: The Life and Times of An Atheist BoyLover…Memoirs and Ethos”, has been narrated by Rocco White. Please enjoy the listen, or read along if you like…or need to.


This can be applied to homophobia…pedophobia [pedophilephobia], islamophobia…or like terminologies…

I’m the last person to imply, that these words are never used wrongly…or for misleading purposes…

…I don’t believe that parodying something [or someone], automatically translates to fear or hatred…

…But I take issue with it when people simplistically define this kind of word, as to make it seem like phobia has nothing to do with the reason they exist.

Many of the expressions which get labeled “phobic”, are more of a symptom of the phobia…They are not a fearful expression, themselves.

From personal experience:

When people start getting nasty with me…maybe mocking me for being a MAP, a pedophile or a BoyLover…I rightly recognize this as an act, rooted in pedophobia [or pedophilephobia]…

Why?…

…Because it usually comes out [fairly quickly], that they mistakenly believe I am raping a child, or plotting to do so…or trying to make rape of children socially acceptable…and who knows what other social problems, they’ll lay blame on me for…

…In their own minds, they’ve made up this fictional character of total evil to represent me…While at the same time being oblivious towards, or willfully ignoring, what I have factually spent a large portion of my life fighting for.

The fact that so many of them have made up these type of strawman…and refuse to open up a goodwill, sincere dialogue…these are the behaviors, of someone who is acting out of emotional fear.

While the immediate expression may be one of hate, power and abuse…there is something deeper it is rooted in…something they genuinely fear…unless they’re just a sociopath, and MAPs are convenient targets for them…But for most people, it is a legitimate fear [even if it is mistaken].

Sad thing…many people mistakenly think they are doing something ultimately noble, when showing aggression towards MAPs…because they imagine their cruelty towards another human being, is somehow going to “save a child” they imagine to be in peril…

…That is classic pedophobia [or pedophilephobia].


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22 thoughts on “Pedophobia: One Problem with the ‘That’s Not Fear’ Argument (Narrated)…

    1. eqfoundation Post author

      “if pedophobia exists it is for lack of information and amalgam and self-hatred.”

      I agree…It’s primarily gross ignorance at the root of most people’s attacks against us.

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      1. masto

        oui ..
        donc il faut faire comme les LGBT
        DES FILMS DE PROPAGANDE ÉMOTIONNEL victimaire ..
        EN GROS FAIRE DES FILMS AVEC DE L APOLOGIE DE LA PEDOPHILIE 🙂
        LES MANGAS ONT BIEN COMMENCER 🙂
        regarde NO GAME NO LIFE ET KUOI KAZE 🙂
        MAIS COMMENT LEUR DÉMONTRER QUE EUX LES PEDOPHOBES SONT PEDOPHILES ?
        ILS VONT NOUS RÉTORQUER QUE LA PEDOPHILIE N EST PAS COMPARABLE A L HOMOSEXUALITE ..!

      2. eqfoundation Post author

        “Yes ..
        so you have to do like LGBT
        FILMS OF EMOTIONAL PROPAGANDA victim.
        WHEN MAKING MOVIES WITH THE APOLOGY OF PEDOPHILIA
        MANGAS HAVE BEEN GETTING STARTED
        look NO GAME NO LIFE AND KUOI KAZE
        BUT HOW TO DEMONSTRATE THEM THAT THE PEDOPHOBES ARE PEDOPHILES?
        THEY WILL REPRESS THAT PEDOPHILIA IS NOT COMPARABLE TO HOMOSEXUALITY ..!”

        Some pedophilephobes are not closet cases…but, many of them are…I think the most aggressive people, often are.

        Pedophilia is a very natural, common attraction, from what I have seen…It likely exists on a spectrum, with most people…but it’s not most people’s primary orientation…

        For some…they just haven’t encountered that child, which “flips their switch”…yet…

        …And a lot of them have had their “switches flipped” secretly…they just would not dare admit to it.

        Studies have shown that large percentages of the adult population, do spontaneously [and involuntarily] respond to naked children with sexual arousal.

        A very large chunk of the adult population is sexually attracted to prepubescent children…But we’ve been victims, of “the” ultimate form of social brainwashing…denying and burying the obvious…reinforcing it by viciously attacking the discussion of it.

        I believe…we will ultimately find that it is entirely natural and common, for adults to like and want even smaller children in this manner…And that is what the pedophilephobes are so terrified of…That this really is the natural state of things…That you can’t really change it…And that they, and so many people they know, may be some degree of pedophile.

        We’ve all been trained to believe, that this is unthinkable…when it really is not.

        Of course…pedophilia and vanilla homosexuality have substantive differences…But making comparisons in parallel experiences, is not the same as saying “all things are equal”…And it’s important that this be understood, from the start.

        I’ve always tried to emphasize the parallels of pedophiles and homosexuals, where it comes to living in a culture hostile towards them…because it gives a solid basis, on which more people can relate and empathize…Most people already understand, that this destructive pain exists for homosexuals…It’s a good focal point…

        …But I am also a staunch believer…that pedophilia stands on it’s own, as a respect worthy orientation which should be socially valued…

        …We don’t exist in the shadow of homosexuality, or any other of the currently oppressed minorities…

        Homosexuality is not the standard by which we should be measured…nor is heterosexuality…

        …And that has been one of our biggest problems…We are being measured by the norms of those identity groups.

        …We need to break away from that…and forge our own public identity.

  1. masto

    oui tu a raison mais comment forger notre identité public ? ont est diviser entre nous BL GL CHL ..;
    COMMENT CA LA SCIENCE PROUVE QUE ONT EST UN PEU TOUS PEDOPHILES ?
    tu a des sources car cest une 1ere pour moi 🙂
    toi tu a deja eu ton enfant déclencheur ? je me trompe ..

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    1. eqfoundation Post author

      “yes you are right but how to forge our public identity? have is divide us BL GL CHL ..;
      HOW DOES SCIENCE PROVE THAT WE ARE A LITTLE ALL PEDOPHILES?
      you have sources because it is a 1st for me
      you already had your child trigger? I am wrong ..”

      I don’t have the link handy to share…I can’t find it. [anyone with a relevant link is invited to share.]

      There has been at least one study done, where they took ordinary people [males, actually], hooked them up to a penile plethysmograph, and exposed them to a wide range of “sexual” images [I don’t recall if they actually showed porn, or not]…including ones of small children…They found something like 25% of the group was becoming aroused by the small children.

      There hasn’t been a lot of studies like this one, to my knowledge…But it’s something I’d like to see further explored.

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    1. eqfoundation Post author

      “and also I would like that there is a global pedophile lobby = IN THE SENSE THAT DEFENDS ITS INTERESTS ..”

      That would be a step in the right direction, yes.

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      1. masto

        j espère que ce lobby pourrait bientôt exister 🙂
        ET SI CETTE ETUDE EST BIEN CONFIRMER ALORS FAUT LA DIVULGUER 🙂
        ET DEUX FAUDRAIT AUSSI LE TESTER SUR LES FEMMES 🙂 = parle de l expérience ..

      2. eqfoundation Post author

        “I hope this lobby could soon exist
        AND IF THIS STUDY IS WELL CONFIRM THEN MUST DISCLOSE
        AND TWO WOULD ALSO TEST THE WOMEN = talk about the experience ..”

        I’ve seen the study cited in some articles, over the years…It was discussed on BoyChat, several years back.

  2. pierre moly

    SALUT pourrait tu ajouter mon témoignage si dessous a la liste des essaies de ce blog ?
    titre: le mangas une arme contre ce monde!
    ETRE PEDOPHILE ET REVISINISTE est illegal dans les pays dits démocratique avec les stigmatisation quont EST violeur ou antisémite ! quand ont parle d amalgame ont n est mal vu : L HOMOSEXUALITÉ N EST PAS PAREIL QUE LA PEDOPHILIE! MOI JE VOUS DIT OUI
    MAIS CE QUI M ATTRISTE CEST QUE DANS UNE SOCIÉTÉ DÉMOCRATIQUE ONT PEUT PAS DRAGUAIT ET PENSER LIBREMENT , DRAGUER LES ENFANTS PAR PEUR DE LA PRISON ET LES CHAMBRES AUSSI
    LES MANGAS SONT POUR MOI UN FANTASME
    SUR TOUT LES PLANS AMOUR AMITIÉ HISTORIQUE ect ..
    CETTE CAPITALISTE CAPITALISTE DE CONSOMMATION OU IL YA DES MORTS DU RACISME CHÔMAGE
    PEUT ETRE ÉVITÉE GRACE A LA ROBOTIQUE ET A L ANARCHISME ROBOTIQUE
    DONNER LE TRAVAILLE AUX ROBOTS
    j espère VRAIMENT QUE LE PEUPLE VA SE RÉVEILLEZ!
    PROLETAIRE DE TOUT LES PAYS UNISEZ VOUS ECT ..

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    1. eqfoundation Post author

      “HI could you add my testimony below to the list of essays of this blog?
      title: mangas a weapon against this world!
      BEING PEDOPHILE AND REVISINIST is illegal in so-called democratic countries with the stigma that IS a rapist or anti-Semitic! when amalgam talk has been frowned upon: HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT LIKE PEDOPHILIA! I SAY YOU YES
      BUT WHAT M ATTRACTS IS THAT IN A DEMOCRATIC SOCIETY CAN NOT DRAGUATE AND THINK FREELY, DRAG THE CHILDREN IN FEAR OF THE JAIL AND THE ROOMS ALSO
      MANGAS ARE FOR ME A FANTASY
      ON ALL PLANS LOVE FRIENDSHIP HISTORY ect ..
      THIS CAPITALIST CAPITALIST OF CONSUMPTION WHERE THERE ARE DEATHS OF RACISM UNEMPLOYMENT
      CAN BE AVOIDED THROUGH ROBOTICS AND ROBOTIC ANARCHISM
      GIVE WORK TO ROBOTS
      I REALLY hope THE PEOPLE WILL WAKE UP!
      PROLETAIRE FROM EVERY COUNTRY UNIT YOU ECT ..”

      I’ll approve the comment…but to be entirely honest…I’m not sure what to make of this.

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      1. eqfoundation Post author

        “OK it does not matter”

        I really don’t know French, and the translator is to rough to really get a coherent translation in this case.

      1. masto

        cest vers la fin quand tout le monde est au courent quiul a 27 ans et ont demande a la fille il ta fait des choses bizarres et la fille leur répond non il était gentil 🙂
        COMME QUOI LE .MYTHE DE LA PEDOPHILIE VIOLEUSE EST DÉTRUITE EN PLS
        ET AU DEBIT LE MEC PENSAIT JUSTE A ETUDIER IL PENSAIT MEME PAS A TOMBER AMOUREUX 🙂

      2. eqfoundation Post author

        “it’s late when everyone is around who is 27 years old and have asked the girl he’s doing weird things and the girl answers them no he was nice 🙂

        HOW THE .MYTHE OF PEDOPHILIA VIOLEUS IS DESTROYED IN PLS

        AND IN DEBIT THE MEC THOUGHT JUST TO STUDY IT THOUGHT TO EVEN WANT TO LOVE 🙂”

        I have a hard time figuring out what’s going on in that video…It just seems like a whole lot of craziness.

        Plus, the Google translator is not giving me grammatically coherent translations of your comments…

        I’m honestly sorry about that…I’d like to be able to comment deeper.

        But…yes…MAPs have pretty much always had it bad, in mainstream media…It’s been one of the worst methods of assault on us.

  3. Wil

    Is there anyway I can use one of my own plug-ins as the boys reading? Seriously any other voice, it’s unlistenable with this one for me. I’ve got the latest Dev Preview of macOS High Sierra 10.13.5 Beta (17F59b) and I even have some high quality paid voices. Are you aware of how I can use any of that to read this instead of yours? If not, I’ll figure it out.

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    1. eqfoundation Post author

      You can likely copy and paste the text into some area, in the synthesizer interface [or whatever you want to call it]…You should be able to get it to read the text, on it’s own…maybe even from the clipboard.

      I’m not familiar with Macs…and I’ve looked into a bunch of different voice synthesizers over the years…

      …Speakonia is the one I have remained with, because it is smooth and clear to my ear…It’s relatively easy to manipulate…and I really did not like the alternatives I was finding.

      I forget the company…but there is one company selling high quality voice synthesizers, that I do really like [from what I’ve seen of them…I was never able to get that deep, or “hands on” with the software]…

      …But that company was draconian, in the way they expected you to use their synthesizers…They interpreted every single public listen to the synthesizer recording as “a performance”…and they expected to be paid a royalty for it…Even if you were the one, creating all the content being read.

      …And all that, after paying out the nose, just to get the individual synthesizer(s) you wanted to use.

      Totally outrageous.

      I do sympathize…because it’s impossible to make Speakonia sound naturally human…But I still consider it one of the best synthesizers out there.

      I’ve done my due diligence, in attempts to segue into something more natural sounding…I’ve probably got six to ten [maybe a dozen] other synthesizer program installers, on hand…I went through the headaches of installing these things, and even having to deal with unwanted [and unacceptable] changes that at least one of them made to my PC…

      …I gave up, and just stuck with something I knew was safe and dependable.

      I’ve also put the wav files produced by Speakonia through various other filters [Magix Music Maker]…making it deeper, or higher…It still sounds like a machine.

      Honestly…I’ve never much understood people’s distaste for this synthesizer…I fell in love with it, almost instantly…It’s smooth, clear in speech and easy to understand, in my opinion…

      Most other voice synthesizers [especially the free ones] have quirks that drive me up the wall…My brain has to be doing extra work, in order to figure out what it’s trying to say…A lot of them vocally pronounce the punctuation…Many of them cannot honestly pronounce certain words…

      …For something you want to give a presentable reading/performance…they present to many problems, you then have to figure out how to get past.

      I really have put a lot of time and effort into this pursuit, in the past…because I wanted to evolve away from the machine voice…I’ve never found a viable, affordable [which at this point in my life means “free”, or close to it] alternative, which fit my needs.

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