Date: January 14, 2017
You know what’s so messed up about people like this guy?…
…It’s that they don’t even understand the people they are attacking…yet this does nothing to stop them, from saying all of these ridiculous, disgusting, dehumanizing things about other people.
Now…for sure…he does touch on one or two things, I rightly should expand upon…But, on the whole…this guy is convoluting several widely different issues…and he doesn’t have a coherent understanding of what he’s trying to put into words.
I don’t think I’m ever going to get past the fact…that a guy [Todd Nickerson] has come out as a MAP, in order to address social stereotypes on MAPs…while deeply associated with a group that condemns all adult minor sexual relations, and echoing that groups viewpoints…and you have all these people going half out of their minds, claiming that Todd is ultimately there to legalize sex between adults and children…
…What this means…is that what is factually going on here, has completely went over the heads of numerous many people…And they’re all talking hyper and frantic amongst themselves, working each other up into some kind of panic.
…Are they simply incapable of the cognition and dialogue?
…And what are we to do about these sorts of people?…I mean, we can ignore them…but it seems like such a waste.
Oh, look!…He’s another person living in a fantasy world, where the government is writing laws to serve us MAPs…All this in the face, of the atrocities these governments have systematically committed against us MAPs…He probably imagines we are secretly controlling the government…
This degree of disconnect, is just staggering.
…And you’re another person, who’s trying to frame this as though children’s rights and MAPs rights are in conflict…when they never have been.
A question I want to pose to this guy:
You claim that we MAPs cause injury, harm, violence…whatever the word was you chose…
…You can cherry pick bad news stories, of children who’ve been raped, brutalized…even murdered…A portion of those news stories may even be about pedophiles…But these are not representative of typical MAP behavior or ethics.
How do you justify claiming that MAPs [“pedophiles”] cause harm?…Who have I, as a pedophile MAP, harmed in any way?…How can you generalize in this way?
I have harmed nobody, at all.
Countless MAPs, will harm nobody at all…
…You have no idea, the extent to which we MAPs have bent over backwards, just to cater to the laws, customs and paranoia, of people like you…So many of us don’t even live a full life, because of this…Many MAPs have suffered dearly, because of this imposition and trespass, at the hands of people who lack the capacity to share empathy.
…And all you can manage, is calling us monsters, when some of us offer ourselves for a public dialogue?
No, guy…the people you are specifically referring too, are not talking about normalizing pedophilia…This is something that people like you have made up.
You don’t get to pass yourself off as “the good guy”, when you just got done completely misrepresenting everything here.
The people you’ve decided to target and talk trash about, are literally pushing for things like support groups, social support structures to prevent MAPs from violating laws [which includes sex with children], and safe access to mental health care for MAPs in need of it.
They actually condemn the very notion, of society changing it’s laws regarding sex between adults and children…But does that make any difference to you?
…So much more fun and satisfying to kick up a fuss, and pretend like you’re being a hero?
Certainly…we have cognitive capacity, which puts our sense of morality in a different state than that of the other animals…Though, I’d be careful in saying ours is “above” theirs…In some ways, it’s more refined…In some ways, it’s over analytic…In some ways, it’s terminally paranoid…
…Most other animals have the luxury, of being able to just go about the business of survival and living, without overactive minds getting in the way of it all. There may be a brutality and harshness in their existence…but it’s an honest existence, that hasn’t been sullied by false interpretations of violence…Their violence is real…not imagined. There is something beautifully refreshing, about that level of honesty.
…Humans are not so honest…and they relentlessly tear each other down, based on little more than differences in how we live, look, think and speak.
…Our evolution in this regard has not been one of progress…It’s merely been a shift in style and focus.
We humans can say “that is probably not a good thing”…yes…And why do you presume, that MAPs are in any way lacking this cognition, or lacking the resolve and moral compos to refrain from doing things they’ve judged as bad?
By my judgment…sticking my erection [or anything] up the anus of a child, is absolutely unacceptable…And as a MAP, I have lived a life of several decades, having no trouble avoiding my erection ending up in anybody’s anus.
What you suggest about us…is that we somehow lack the capacity to control ourselves…You don’t even know what you are talking about…Stop trying to dehumanize us.
Who is going to benefit from the acceptance of MAPs?
…MAP’s, yes…but also, anybody who in any way has been spared the fallout and experience, of any person [MAP, or otherwise] who has been driven over the edge.
If we had a more intelligent way of socially embracing MAP’s…it’s very conceivable that many of the high profile cases that went into creating things like Megan’s Law, likely would not have happened at all.
A radically different social approach to MAP’s, and human sexuality, would only serve to protect people.
The left promoting degeneracy, and hating the family?
Oh, good grief…
…Do you understand the concept, of tearing the boil open…and bringing the difficult subject of discussion to the surface, in order to fully understand and address it?…Because I don’t believe you do.
If there is any hate for the family…I’ve only witnessed this hate, from within the confines of a religious family, headed by a heterosexual marriage…Because you “normal” folk have enough hate for it, to tear your own families apart, at a staggering level…whether they split up [which is common] or not.
The left doesn’t promote degeneracy…
…The left recognizes [usually], that the people the government taps into for taxes, public service, military service, etc, etc, etc…include the exact same people, who are homosexual, bisexual, etc, etc, etc…and that they have no valid ground, on which to deny these people a voice in the creation and implementation of law, and public services.
Gay marriage came about…because most people got sick of the government telling productive members of society, which it exists upon the backs of, that they cannot have equivalent rights with everybody else. For an increasing number of the U.S. population…taxation without representation, has been brought to a stop.
…This country, it’s laws and customs, do not belong to “you”, just because you imagine yourself to be normal…or typical.
…You should not expect it to cater to you, and your sensibilities, alone.
…You’re not the only one here, who has to scratch out an existence, buddy.
There are plenty of people here, who don’t need your intolerance getting in the way of their ability to live a meaningful life.
…Okay…I’ve written enough on this one.
Date: January 15, 2017
“The mechanism of harm has rarely been mentioned more than in the most cursory fashion, and never really systematically investigated. Unlike other subjects of grave concern, like cancer or heart disease or even AIDS, there has been no funding set aside to understand how sexual experience causes harm, or really even to test the assumption that it does — even though several maverick researchers have demonstrated the need to look more deeply at this assumption.”
One has to question…just why so many “sex abuse” research studies have been conducted…yet this commonly present question in other research, of “what causes this harm”, is glaringly absent in “sex abuse” research…or at least woefully under explored.
It’s been my personal suspicion…that they simply don’t want this information out there for the general public…because they don’t want to confront, what they are likely to establish as true.
…What they find, is not going to be convenient to modern social practices and beliefs…and just as damning, in conflict with an established, powerful “sex abuse” industry.
…Wherever the money, moral outrage and over the top emotions are located…so gets dragged everyone else.
…Isn’t civilization wonderful?