Date: November 03, 2018
Does a boy in makeup or drag, sexually turn you on?
Given the incident with Desmond is Amazing a while back, where people were freaking out over him being featured on a fake NAMBLA poster…I thought it might be fitting to address this question.
First…I’d caution people not to let their preconceptions about sexuality, inhibit their actual understanding of it.
Now…I’m not going to suggest this specific interest does not exist…I’ve seen at least one BoyLover admit to having this interest…But this discussion has come up in the past…and from what I’ve seen…the ones who get turned on by makeup and drag, are a minority within a minority…
…They are the oddball BoyLovers…if I may use such a term [in the most endearing way, possible].
As much as I am hesitant to cite this movie, because the pedophile in it is such a scumbag…if we can isolate the individual scene…the movie “Happiness” has this scene in it…where the pedophile character first discovers this boy, and falls for him…and this boy is all boy…getting ready to swing at a ball, in a baseball game…And this is an excellent example, of what typically attracts a homosexual pedophile to a boy…his pure boyness…
…We’re not looking for a boy, pretending to be a little woman.
If anything…I would suggest that the makeup and female clothing, is a turn off.
Desmond is cute enough in his own right…and for me…nothing I have seen him do for performance, has ramped up my level of attraction.
If you think that boys altering themselves away from natural boyishness, and introducing “adult” traits of the opposite sex, is supposed to somehow enhance a BoyLovers sexual arousal…then I’m afraid the fundamentals of the BoyLove attraction, have gone way, way, way over your head.
To a BoyLover…boys are not a substitute for women, nor for girls…Boys are just what we are attracted to…
…If we could have all the women in the world…we would still choose to be with a boy.
…You want the boy…That’s what it means to be a BoyLover.