Date: May 16, 2019
I think the one sole thing about Pat which I had a harder time with…was the “Hell is for Children” thing…
I was still pretty young when it came out..It sounded fine…It just always went over like a thud, with me…It’s a dark, very emotionally suggestive song, incorporating your typical themes on child sexual abuse.
Why it stood out, is because nobody was doing this type of thing…introducing that sort of issue, with that sort of depiction and message…
As I got a bit older…I realized more deeply what the song was actually about…and for most of my life, “Hell is for Children” has stood out in my mind…as a pioneering effort to construct this really dark mental picture…of “what it means for children to be touched by sex”…
…I dislike this song, because of what it lyrically pushes…in a black and white sort of way.
It always seemed like it was setting there, “right at the beginning”, fanning the flames of hysteria.
At the same time…I do realize, that “Hell is for Children” does represent the lived experience of many children in this world.
I just think the song falls short, morally…in that it’s so narrow in view…
…There is no distinction…It’s all just, “You shouldn’t have to pay for your love, with your bones and your flesh”…as if there were no other option, than brutality and injury.
Given everything that falls under the umbrella of “child sexual abuse”…I find this to be a really wrong, honestly reprehensible, framing of the issue.