M.A. Today – 001) “Deviant”…


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Date: May 27, 2019

01) MA Today 01 ‘Deviant’

Originally Posted on May 06, 2008



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“Deviant”…

…What is “deviant”?…

…other than a bit of spooky language, to evoke alarm and infer something is “wrong”?…

Is there such a thing as a “sexual deviant”?…

…honestly?…

Oh sure…we have our dogmatically enforced, social norms…but social norms all to frequently conflict with the natural state of being human…

Short of being born without sex organs, or being born with an extreme deformity…there is virtually nothing, which removes a human of any age, from the sexual arena…or the sexual appeal of others…

This is because, it is in our biological nature, to explore and behave in a sexually active manner.

…There is no “magic age”, where this all begins…

It simply exists within us, as an intrinsic part of us…which we now can trace back, and clearly exhibit, all the way from pre-birth…

…The male fetus has a clear and discernible sex drive…

They just typically do not call it a “sex drive”, because acknowledging the natural sexuality which exists within a child, in a society not designed around any sense of responsibility to respect and nurture that child’s sexuality…is likely to get an extreme and wrathful response, from groups and individuals who harbor, spread and exploit a sense of social panic and phobia, surrounding topics of human sexuality…

…Some of these people hold substantial political influence…and can cause a grave deal of very serious, ill consequence, to anyone who gets in the way of their own, social agendas…

…and they are much to busy spreading the phobia, terrorizing the public with the stereotypes, stigmas and other such propaganda…to ever be bothered with learning about the topics they fear…and learning how to best approach and deal with them…

When you don’t care about the facts, and only focus on the phobia…all the facts and findings inconvenient to your own social agenda, get “lost” and “forgotten” about…as the volume gets turned up on spooky language, stereotypes, stigmas and scapegoating…

A proverbial…mental, “slight of hand”…designed to trick and mislead…to appeal towards and play upon your emotions…as though emotional outbursts will somehow, “out weigh” the sound truth…

…As though the truth will ever cease being important, if you get a large enough number of people worked up, into a frenzied rage…

Let me ask you a question…

If the estimated one in four girls, and one in six boys, is…being “sexually molested” during their childhood…and there are millions of children even just in the U.S.A….

…how well does this bode, for the dogmatically held idea…that sexual interest in children even “is” a deviant behavior in the human species?…

If it “is” happening on that level of frequency, do we even have any justification in calling it “deviant”?…

…What does it “deviate” from?…because it clearly does not deviate from typical, human sexual behavior, if it is happening that much…

…and I guarantee you, all of this “molesting” is not the work of some highly exclusive, ultra private group…consisting of a few dozen “pedophiles” who travel the globe, goosing every cute boy and girl they come across…

…It is the “every man”…the “common” folk…even the people who outwardly rebuke the very activity…who are doing it…

In any civilized society, where the sexuality of children (and youth) is openly acknowledged and addressed in a mature, level headed manner…

…children are typically allowed freedom to sexual experience, and sexual expression…and like any human being, they take to it very enthusiastically…so long as they are being respected, and not personally being brutalized or tormented, within the context of these sexual experiences…

Age is only a number…

Sexual contact between an adult and a child is not…nor has it ever been, universally unaccepted…nor universally condemned…It has been highly valued, in many diverse cultures throughout history…

We only learn that “these kinds of things” are not socially acceptable within our own culture, after years of being exposed to direct (some very harsh) and subliminal messages…until the day comes in which we personally perceive the culturally imposed stigma…and the grave consequence for “offending” that stigma…

…and, this is accompanied by a deafening taboo…one which possesses it’s own sort of phobia…lest anyone ever become so “wickedly” emboldened, to actually speak of such things…

…but, in an atmosphere where no such sexual superstitions exist…children and adults will engage each other in sexual touch and pleasure…and they will quite happily return to each other as sexual lovers, in a long term relationship…so long as they are both comfortable and happy in that relationship…

This is a constant, repeating and understood truth, in human sexuality…

…Age is no barrier to anything…

…So, is this “deviant”?…

…Only if being human, is the same thing as being “deviant”…

It is “funny”, how many of our cultures celebrate the idea of cultural diversity…which is just another term, denoting that we are one large gaggle of humans, who constantly deviate from any one set of norms…yet we cant wrap our collective mind around the concept of a truly comprehensive, sexual diversity…

The fact that we do not conform, in any number of millions of possible ways…we call “that” a, “strength”…an “asset”…”good”…”a positive change for the future”…

…but, where taboos, superstitions and lust for social power are concerned…well…”those” bits of diversity aren’t diversity at all…No…they are “deviancy”…

…There is no celebration of that diversity…There is only that “celebration”, of wallowing in the phobias…exploiting vulnerable minorities…a frenzy of political “feeding at the trough”…

Are we ever going to learn, that human sexuality is part of who we are?…that it “is” us?…that it is not going away?…

…and that if we never learn how to effectively, ethically, logically and maturely interact with it…we are just going to continue on, making a mess of things…and turning this into a far more complicated problem, than it ever should have been in the first place…

…I am a pedosexual…

…but I am no deviant…for I am as normal and natural a human being, as a human being comes…

The biggest difference between “me”, and your typical, “normal” adult…is that I will talk about the exact same type of human experiences, which we nearly all share in common…to one degree or another…

…where as, most people are far to psychologically controlled, to ever muster up the honesty and integrity it requires, for them to outwardly express that…yes, “they” are like this also…”They” have noticed and experienced the same thing, even if only on rare instances…

…They have had these thoughts and desires, too…

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2 thoughts on “M.A. Today – 001) “Deviant”…

  1. feinmann0

    ‘…What is “deviant”?… other than a bit of spooky language, to evoke alarm and infer something is “wrong”?’

    Yes, human beings seem to have a propensity for displaying fear towards unknown things, largely due to their total ignorance of them.

    Lensman discussed a simarly horrible word – ‘Creep’ – here: https://consentinghumans.wordpress.com/2015/09/05/on-being-creepy/

    “‘Creep’ is … the verbal equivalent of depression: it undermines everything you’ve ever valued in yourself, every quality, every love and every achievement. And if I’m writing about it here it’s because it’s the word invariably applied to paedophiles. I also fear that it is an identity we sometimes can’t help but recognise in ourselves, an identity that, despite ourselves, we sometimes assume.”

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    1. eqfoundation Post author

      Very nice.

      The first installment, “Deviant”, is probably the best one which got finished and published…though there were at least ten more scripts written, waiting to be made into videos.

      A few of them were more less, just early “setting the stage” kind of stuff…

      In all honesty, “M.A. Today” was “In Self Defense”, translated into video.

      I wanted to turn it into a fully fleshed out podcast, with different segments.

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