Bunker Mentality

Bunker Mentality “As boylovers who have grown up in modern Western culture, I understand that we all suffer to a greater or lesser extent from bruised psyches from having had to live with a bunker mentality all our lives. In order to survive, it has become necessary to consider everyone else an enemy unless proven otherwise.” – Barry Casper Cited From Here This is an important issue, especially when it comes to understanding the psychology of many Child Lovers and Teen Lovers. Myself, for example…I’ve known days, before it was as bad as today…But the far majority of days I have lived, I’ve known the world was fraught with peril…a constant threatening menace, towards people like me…You cannot escape it, because the threats and reminders of threat…they are everywhere… Everybody is a potential danger…and many circumstances are likewise. You can speak to nobody… Trust is extremely difficult to give…I dare say, most people do not deserve that level of trust…and many have shown themselves unworthy of it. People who are my enemies…and enemies of others like myself?… Those who relentlessly attack us…leading the charge against us, while not having the first care of even understanding us [who we are, what we stand for, etc]…those who just want to strip us of everything…those who work to decimate us, as a minority…those who talk over us, and judge us by the strawman they have created…those who try to stop us, from bettering our own plights in life…and those with even darker intentions… …I cannot think of those people, as being anything other than literal, modern day monsters… Judith Reisman…I rather staunchly expressed what I think of her, some time back on BoyChat…”a harlot of the sex abuse industry”…A person who is divorced from objective reality, who dogmatically bashes sexual minorities…accusing them [all of us] of ugly things…She has worked ravenously, to make certain our lives and existences are as terrible as possible…She has made it clear in her own words…that she would have us all living in the wilderness, isolated from everybody else… I think it is fair to say…the majority of us Child Lovers and Teen Lovers, have done absolutely nothing [against Judith, or otherwise], to deserve this maltreatment…What Judith has to offer, is demented vitriol towards a generally gentle and benign minority…Yet, Judith has been at this crusade of crap she is on, for many, many years… Judith says whatever harmful thing she pleases about others, without care for whether or not it is even true…For Judith, it is all about Judith’s perspective and Judith’s phobia… Judith would have us all [us so called “sexual deviants”] gagged and stripped of all manner of voice…so that she can dictate at whim “what we want”, “how we think”…”what we do”…without the troublesome threat of reality getting in her way. It is exactly under these circumstances, and the chronic onslaught of Judith herself…that I made my own unflattering [yet, implicitly honest] assessment of Judith Reisman…The woman is an ignorant hate monger, and a malicious monster… …I also look upon David L. Finkelhor, in the same way…a complete monster, who’s crimes against Child Lovers and Teen Lovers will never be atoned for…They are far too vast, and deeply impacting…made worse still, in that David knows he was enforcing a social structure and prejudice, not sincerely studying children, teens, Child Lovers or Teen Lovers…His “conclusions” were mandated, before he even began… David was no expert…so much as he was a “yes” man…one with the degrees, to lend a sense of credibility, to all that has happened to Child Lovers and Teen Lovers in recent decades… No less a purveyor of hate speech and propaganda…David is the primary source of both “recovered memory syndrome”, and “satanic sex abuse”…Both of which were discredited, and exposed as fabricated epidemics…But not before they inflicted much social and political damage. There are various people, who have been extremely mean and cruel to the Child Love and Teen Love community…Some of them have really made a name for themselves…Some have profited off of their hate and contempt, like parasites…Two such people of note, are those I’ve named above…and there are many others. As somebody who is fed up with the crap they peddle…as someone who has been personally impacted for the worse, by their foul behavior…it does come as first nature to me…to hold such people in extremely low esteem…Their extreme contempt for people like myself, has earned them this disdain from me in return. There is an old saying…”Never respect those, who don’t respect you”…and I adhere to that principle… I don’t have any natural tendency to run my mouth at, or about, other people…But certain people have been dragging Child Lovers and Teen Lovers through the mud, for years…decades even…spreading the most disgusting, heinous lies about us…literally, relentlessly hurting us as a minority…all because they can, and they have it in their head that they are going to… …I think it is high time…that they are no longer allowed a free pass to do this… I think…when they commit an act of vulgar hate…there should be many of us there, who have been trespassed against…and we should stand united, in denouncing that individuals vulgar act of hate. …These forms of social predators, are no more acceptable than any kind of predator. While I may speak from a bunker mentality…I also speak as someone who knows what it is like, to live on the receiving end of that vulgar hate and abuse. I don’t know, if I could ever make an outsider understand the full impact of that…But this is what colors a lot of what I do…what I write about…and why I write about it… It is also why I am extremely critical and outraged, at people like Judith and David…These people have been outright vicious towards us…There is bad blood. It is important to keep in mind, just how many people have been relentlessly poking sticks at us [and worse] for decades. When you understand this, you can begin to realize why our view of the world is justified.