Date: December 21, 2020
The forces of evil may try to keep us down…but they never will succeed.
Date: June 20, 2020
This is going to be a typical short post for IBLD…but, do be on the lookout for a few nice things relevant to the celebration…They’re scheduled to post on this blog later today…
I will be working today, so…There wont be anything “live” from me, until I get back home…and since I’m also working Sunday, I probably wont be doing much…We shall see.
Happy International BoyLove Day!
Date: December 21, 2019
As the title says…Happy IBLD!
It’s technically over with, here…but…I’m still running off of Saturday, December 21, 2019…So, I’m just going to back date this post a wee bit on my blog…but for me, I’m still experiencing International BoyLove Day.
It was an okay day. Not a lot to report.
Date: June 28, 2019
“International Boy Love Day is another complete disgrace to the human race and all that it beholds. June 21st will mark the 20 year anniversary of IBLD and what a great time for Enchanted LifePath to wade in and piss all over the parade by alerting as many people as possible to this day of disaster with a sharp and swift character assassination of anyone associated to IBLD.
IBLD is a date for pedophiles to celebrate their disturbing desires and even encourage others to do so on June or December 21st but they have since moved on from it being just dates for them to remember and be openly disgusting as they now have their own website.
The website claims they have been “continuously serving responsible boy love since July 1998” and it also continues in the same grovelling theme.
It states: “International Boy-Love Day is a day of observance, taken part in by those who appreciate, support and celebrate loving relationships with boys. It is also a day of commemoration and reflection for many, focusing on the social plight of those who are naturally inclined to love boys.
This is a day of mutual dignity…a day of self awareness…a day of belonging”.
The horror gets worse as the website also has a “Peer Support Exchange” designed for “Finding Real-Life Friendships”
Hello, Enchanted Lifepath…
You are clearly mixing parts of the EQF IBLD Website, with parts of the SafeHaven IBLD Website…both of which are distinctly separate websites…created and maintained by two different people.
Most people are not going to realize this [possibly, including yourself], because they lack a familiarity with either/both websites…and they lack a familiarity with the history of IBLD.
In fact, the SafeHaven website [the one with the Peer Support Exchange] ceased operation a year or so back.
It appears most of the quotes you are taking, are from my EQF IBLD website.
It’s poor form [and not on the level], to confuse issues, resources and people like this.
International BoyLove Day has had websites dedicated to it, ever since shortly before the very first IBLD was celebrated.
I created one such website for the first IBLD…and I had at least one other, I believe the following year…I possibly made others…but they are likely lost.
At the very least…the EQF IBLD Website is my third IBLD website…though, it’s my most thorough and substantive out of them.
The EQF IBLD Website links to other IBLD resources…including the archive of at least one other IBLD Website [“Your IBLD Website”].
There have been a number of us creating and maintaining IBLD websites, all along…The EQF IBLD Website is hardly the first…At something like five years old, it’s probably just the most recent IBLD website of any substance.
This has been archived, acknowledged and responded to.
That “The FBI published this information in the public domain on January 31st, 2007. The same year Madeleine McCann went missing.”, is entirely irrelevant to the observance of IBLD.
It is noted that you decided to include mention of an unrelated, well known missing child investigation, for no apparent reason.
That is a tainting practice…Something avoided by people of integrity.
Scruffy Lad was an artist and a BoyLover, who made art for maybe the first dozen IBLD observations.
IBLD has always been out in the open…We’ve defined, discussed and explained everything out in the open.
I have no idea where you are getting the notion, that any kind of hidden messages or symbols are associated with IBLD.
Have you done any actual research into this, or are you just cobbling a bunch of stuff together and publishing it?
You don’t appear to have a working familiarity with IBLD.
You’ve also spent a chunk of your post, discussing Alice Day and things said by Girl Lovers…
…That is off topic.
You are talking about yet another thing, which is entirely unrelated to IBLD.
Again…You are tainting.
Why don’t you actually discuss MAP issues with actual MAP’s, instead of carelessly throwing together a hodgepodge of misinformation and unrelated facts?
I’ve only watched seven minutes of this, so far…
This guy doesn’t even appear to understand, that there is more than one website [he clicked a link to BoyWiki, and left the EQF IBLD website, but acts oblivious].
I’ll watch the entire thing…but thus far, this video is really convoluted…and hasn’t offered anything of substance to respond to…just a bunch of your typical outrage culture, and things to correct and clarify.
If I have anything to add, I’ll make another post in this series.
Date: June 21, 2019
Happy International BoyLove Day!
Forgive the brevity of this post…it’s going to be another short IBLD post.
However…I did happen to finally get the EQF IBLD 20 year anniversary video done and uploaded.
I hope it is satisfactory, and pleases.
It’s located at the above link.
Date: January 06, 2019
Let it be known, I’ve removed the “International BoyLove Day!” [www.ibld.net] link from the EQF IBLD website.
This domain is now redirecting people to a malicious website.
It would be best for all who have links to the old International BoyLove Day! website, to remove those links.
I’m positive I have Dave’s IBLD website archived somewhere…I’ll look into rebuilding it, and putting it into the IBLD History section…Though, I can make no promises, on how quickly this will happen.
Date: December 21, 2018
Something you might find interesting, is The Allen Ginsberg Project…
…Allen Ginsberg was a member of NAMBLA…and is considered to have been one of the USA’s most famous, most successful and most loved BoyLovers.
As discussed here…please feel free to send [or share with] me, any picture[s] you have taken of your burning blue candle…I will publish them all here on this blog…maybe even put them into a video…no promises…just “maybe”…
Note: This is a tad embarrassing, but it seems e4ward.com has ceased forwarding attached files.
Would it be imposing to much, to ask that anyone interested use a website like https://imgur.com/ and send me the url?
You don’t have to register for an account, or anything. You’ll get a url upon uploading a file…You can e-mail that url to me, at the address below.
Sorry for any inconvenience!
I’ve successfully received said picture[s] in the past, through this address…Alternatively, you can upload your picture somewhere, and send me the URL via the contact page.
Also, please send some sort of identifying handle [nickname], so I know who to say sent it…or specify if you want to be anonymous.
20 Year Anniversary of IBLD:
Today marks the twenty year anniversary of International BoyLove Day!
I don’t know how many of us thought we’d be looking back, twenty years later…and still holding this tradition faithfully…But, here we are!…
To people new to this day of commemoration…welcome!
To all who’ve been with us before…welcome back!
I hope this is a wonderful day for all.
Date: December 20, 2018
Andrew13 is right…
Girl-Lovers did the smart thing for Alice Day, in picking one specific date and sticking with that…
…But, we are BoyLovers…so, we had to dump on layer after layer of complexity…to the point of ludicrousy…
Speaking as one of the few people to have and maintain an IBLD website…it’s enough of a chore, just having to track down the yearly solstice dates…without having to figure out what Saturday is supposed to go along with it…or whether or not the BoyLove community has figured out how to mash in yet another layer of variation on the rules…
I primarily went back to recognizing IBLD on the solstices, because I got fed up with the fact that they wouldn’t just leave it alone, instead of forcing it to bounce all over the place…
Some thoughts I’ve had in recent times:
1) I don’t like this idea quite so much…but I’ve thought it might be interesting to call it the International BoyLove Festival…starting on the solstice, and ending on the following Saturday…I mean, it’s a great idea [and actually, I love the concept]…but, lets be real…are we really going to fill several days a year with…what?…Just keeping up with one day can be too much work.
2) It’s the 20 year anniversary of IBLD…which means this is a big one…I’d like to say I have a video to commemorate it done…but I’ve only got the barest of notions, on what to do for it…I’ve barely broken ground…and this holiday season is thrashing the hell out of me…It’s not likely to be done by the 21st…Maybe I’ll aim for summer this time…But it feels wrong, not to have it out on the true 20 year anniversary. Been thinking about it and trying to develop something for at least a year.
My health has really been going south the last couple of years…and it’s hard for me to do these kinds of projects anymore…and it frustrates the hell out of me.
3) Again…20 years it’s been…can we finally come up with distinguishing titles, to differentiate the two [summer and winter] observations?
Maybe each can have it’s own theme?…A lot of us do observe both…It would be nice if each one had it’s own focus…We can have as many holidays as we want…We could have one a month, if we wanted…but they should have their own meaning…We shouldn’t be calling four different days a year IBLD…It’s ridiculous…
…This day of observance has gone through so many changes in two decades, it’s almost a parody…and it needs better structure…provided anybody is taking it seriously, that is.
I don’t like the idea of doing anything unilaterally with IBLD…but if the broader community doesn’t do it…then I am going to slap some sort of name onto the summer and winter solstice…even if it only applies to my own website…Because it’s a great idea, and it distinguishes them.
…Think I’ll call one Bob…and the other Sue…
…Just kidding about that…I have a vague idea or two…not sure they’re good enough…or we could call one Zeus…and the other one Ganymede…I suppose…That’s kind of goofy, too…or maybe it’s good…
…I’m not usually up this late anymore [It was past 6 AM when I wrote this]…and I’m really feeling light headed…and hoping this post isn’t coming off too ornery…It wasn’t meant to be…
I’m about ready to observe the classic and original IBLD…and it feels like everything is just bottlenecking on me.
Reading this thread…it’s like a thing or two was taken straight out of my own thoughts, especially over the last few weeks.
It seems like everybody just does whatever they want…and there is no real “day”, anymore…which kind of kills the whole idea behind it.
Maybe it’s time for a reboot of IBLD, so we can all get back on the same page?…reintroduce simplicity into IBLD?
At this point…I would not even care if it was a radical reboot, abandoning the solstices, and picking a neutral time of year…in the spring or fall…[away from major holidays]…
…I love the fall…so long as there’s a soft landing… 😉
Date: June 25, 2018
What a lovely surprise!…
…A fellow observer of IBLD, sent me a photo of their burning, blue candle.
…Which I love!…and I would love to share it, except I don’t have permission…
It’s led me to a question…
…Why don’t we photograph our burning, IBLD candles…and post them online as a collection, every IBLD?
It sounds like a neat tradition…simple…easy enough to do…
I’d be happy to start having this, as a feature in my IBLD posts…or the collection could be a stand alone post, during the days associated with IBLD [from the solstice, through the following Saturday].
Of course…it would be wise to be discrete, in how much surrounding you reveal…but, it’s a really neat idea…Isn’t it?
What say you?