Date: February 23, 2010
01) 471 Sex Crimes Against Delaware Pediatrician
Do people get into the field of pediatric medical care, in order to fulfill a sexual desire?
No doubt, a few do.
It saddens me to know, that anyone would ever think that this is either acceptable, or that it is “their only option” to know a child intimately…
…and then again, maybe…this man is just sadistic on a personal level…and he gets off on violent rape?
I don’t want to speculate very much, as I don’t know his circumstances, or the path that led him to this dreadful set of circumstances.
I should note, however…This is one of the very few case stories I’ve encountered, where the “victim count” [literal victims, or not] made it to the triple digits [though, it’s just a little past 100].
These kinds of cases are extremely rare…which is why it made the news.
Someone in his position had resources [drugs] available to him, no doubt, to assist him in getting away with this for so long…otherwise, one would be left to wonder, if he were doing violent assaults on children, then how is it that none talked, or showed signs of the assault?
…Or, maybe they have one, or two [or a handful of] charges against him, and they decided to pull his entire clientele into the investigation, claiming they are all “victims”?
Such distortions are very possible, when it comes to this kind of news.
I am curious as to why anyone felt the need to clarify, that “one of the victims was a boy”. That just came off as bizarre. It is as though they had the opportunity to claim homosexual assault, so they went ahead and did so…for shock value?
I do not see the relevance.
For the record…if these charges are true, then this guy should be locked away for a long, long time…and he may never see the outside world, again.
I recognise that kind of behavior, as both predatory and gross exploitation. You do not present yourself to others, under an unrelated and important pretext [ie: being a doctor to service your child’s needs], just to turn around and force some kind of blatant assault [on those who were brought to you, in order to tend to their medical needs].
I am reminded of Dr. Adam Selene [a BoyChat poster, from years back, who was a knowledgeable doctor]…and how he sternly rebuked an anonymous poster [a troll?], who asked for advice, as to whether they should become a pediatrician, in order to gain access to children.
“You don’t get into the medical field, unless you sincerely want to help people”, and “This is no place to get your sexual thrills”, are how I would [more nicely] sum up Dr. Selene’s message.
This is just about as bad, as the “pedophile priests”…
We, as a society, need to start getting smart…and looking at the root problems, which would drive anyone to these kinds of behaviors [and in some cases, atrocities].
You know…I don’t tend to highlight these kinds of cases on my personal websites, though I’ve addressed many of them [at places like BoyChat] over the years.
I do not ignore them [not at all], it is just that my focus has been on bringing the world to a well rounded, even understanding of “pedophilia”, and the issues surrounding it.
I figure, within hours…hundreds [probably thousands] of people will have pounced upon this news story…and they will be letting the whole world know of their own outrage, and whatever it is they think “should be done to” this guy.
I try to provide not only a better quality of personal character, but also a higher standard of integrity, than what you would typically find on the internet…and I hope this comes through clearly.
I refuse to engage in the typical, online behavior.
This is why I normally focus on the positive, rational aspects of “pedophilia”, and upon confronting the social resistance towards it…as well as other forms of taboo, human sexuality.
We need far more level headed voices, like what I am providing.
We need to band together, and remove the broken social behaviors, which would drive anyone to do the kinds of things, that honestly can be called “sexual assault” [on children or adults]…
…but, at the same time, we must respect that there is a clear, distinct line between healthy sexuality [and development], and predatory assault.
We cannot ever hope to effectively address real sexual violence, until we are ready to get serious about not convoluting the issues, and not allowing sex laws, to be used as weapons against peaceful, sexual minorities.
As things stand, persecuted sexual minorities will only be driven underground…Some will become desperate and angry, because they have no safe outlet. These circumstances only act to inflame, whatever serious dangers already exist.
…This pattern of political, social behavior, only acts to encourage sexual violence, and other forms of violence, including murder.
We need to focus on the root social problems, not spend our time, recklessly calling for this guys head on a platter, or seeking bloody revenge.
Is nobody else, at all, interested in confronting these issues, in a way that actually means something?